Men – Seek Helpmates, Not Soulmates


“And God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18

Henry Makow Ph.D. — April 26, 2014

I wish I understood the following 40 years ago when I was 24.

Men, marry a helpmate, not a soul-mate. I have been married to one for 13 years. It works for me. If you can find a “soul-mate,” I tip my hat to you.

To those who say helpmates are boring, I say “hallelujah.” I don’t depend on my marriage for excitement.  However, my wife is not what feminists call “a doormat.” She has a masters degree and a career. She’s smart, honest and has a good sense of humour.

“You contradict everything I say,” I tell her.
“Not all the time,” she replies.

So, here’s my advice in ten points.

1. Man is governed by his thoughts. Imagine a steak and he salivates. Imagine a beautiful half-naked woman in handcuffs and he gets aroused. Whoever controls his thoughts controls himObviously, it’s best if he controls his own thoughts.

2. Society suffers from mass hypnosis….

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